If THAT is being a man, then i would rather be a lesbian then a straight guy. Seriously. No woman worth dating needs a guy THAT manly.

the truth that you dont want to face is that girls DO like guys who are nice. They often go for the confident guys in high school, but when it comes to marriage girls dont marry the confident jerk who only sleeps with them for fun.

And there IS shame in your testorsterone. Our feminist society is right: it is violence, and in general masculininty that causes a lot of our problems. We need to make guys LESS like guys. Less barroom brawls, less wanting to sleep around, less anger. Only likeing a girl for her body IS shameful!

I'll never be that kind of man, ever. I'll be the nice guy, as long as a live. I hope other guys do not see this. We need guys to be LESS angry and masculine and full of lust. No the other way around. In the olden days, men were not equals in their relationships, so being that manly fit. But today, with a spouce as an equal, men need to mellow down a bit to understand their wives feelings and be kind to them.