Thanks everyone for the sound advice thats been given me during my tough time being dumped....
Its helped me start to get over my ex, and put me in a position to give others advice on their situations.

But, now about 6 weeks on.. im still not over it, when we first split up, used to get pissed off about the way she used to treat me. Sometimes i would love her and sometimes i would hate her.

Then i found out she had a new man, and i was devastated, for a while...then i started to feel ok about it, i thought i was gettin over it, now i feel just how i felt when we split up, i spend hours of the day either pining for her or gettin pissed about the way she used to treat me.

Its been 6 weeks now, about 2 solid weeks of no contact, a few broken weeks of no contact before that ...

Today has been a bad day and ive been thinkink about her all day..and now im drunk.
How long is this gonna take?????????