Thanks for your answers guys, appreciate it a lot. A couple of days more have past, and everything is going fine with the be-sober-and-get-to-know-eachother-thing.

dadcob, you're right (of course), about the risk of being rejected, and yes - that is exciting (once you look back on it, during it i'm just horrified :).

illusional, i dont know if i did, but maybe i gave the impression of being the kind of guy who pumps and dumps :) hehe. well - im not. i havn't even tried, and i dont want to either (!?). i just want things to take the time it needs .. for everything to be beautiful and a little serious i guess. i absolutely want to know her better. she's "special", you know..

luvyun. i take your advice most seriously, not because you're a girl but because you advice me to tell her straight up what i feel about her. i have considered this, but i thought about just showing her my affection and appreciation in some other way until i think its time.
it would be -so- stupid to scare her off, i know i would be if someone told me. well .. i used to be anyways. oh, maybe thats my esteem talking again. well, i could keep you updated on this if you want.

well, thanks alot ppl for the advice, looking forward to more :) or maybe reading some of your dilemmas.

- corewarp