Yes I totally agree with how money is of importance but in a way, everything I have I share w/ my significant other and yes I am young. I am 21, but no I have been in numerous relationships and have j/ gotten out of a 2 and a half year relationship so it's not like i'm some 16 year old who's harmones are raging and don't have any clue about relationships. I know what I'm doing and what is right and wrong, but i've never encountered a problem like this before and was curious about other people's opinions.

But I'm happy to say that my gf and I have worked it out over lunch j/ an hour ago and caught drinks and toasted to a new beginning and as hard as it is for her, she let her down her pride and did this for us. I thank you for all your advice and thank you for even caring. So once again, thank you.