Thanks for your thoughts alovelylady86..
Well,of course i would definitely have to care if a man im going to marry became an alcoholic. I wouldnt like it.

What kind of a girl likes a man who drinks ''a lot'' every single day anyway?!

but now that i dont care, because he is not my man.

foolinlove and fawn... thank you for your ideas...youre right, im the only one takes no action, but wait. i think im going to have to try asking him to go out and do something together,as im getting more impatient everyday!

but im not really sure what to ask. He likes baseball and stuff..may be a game? any different clues?