Oh man, when I read the title of this thread I thought that an uncle falling in love with his niece was bad enough, but ****ing hell man she's 14 and you're 21!! She dosn't know what she's doing. You need to back off. I also think that you are stupid for posting something as serious as this on a public forum. But I also think that you are trying to sort out this situation by coming on here so it's not all bad. I think you need to back off and not spend any time with this girl.