Shyness used to be a problem for me, it resulted in losing a bunch of chances with girls... And weird effects like girls asking me out :-\

Anyways, I got over this problem now - The thing is people take girls as for being from another planet, but actually they are people just like us.

And you can come up and say Hi to them and ask em out without being zapped! Whats the worst thing she can happen? She says "No, Im kinda busy".....
Well thats just me...

Another mistake i made was wanting to start a relationship before even becoming FRIENDS! I urge you people not to make a mistake like that. Youll be sorry!