well i'm not really that concerned with whether or not you respond to me lovelylady. i don't care. and if you look back on my post, you will see that i did not make any insults, other than doubting the authenticity of this person's story. i called nobody names and i am not trying to gain control over people. so frankly, i don't know what you're talking about and i'm pretty glad that you probably won't respond to this or any of my other posts. and if you don't like the way people talk in these threads, then don't read them, plain and simple.