You all have given great advice. I know he is really upset about the situation but the thing is when he had a steady job and money he didn't go out and take care of the things that he could have. I know of course he does has to get a new job for any of that to happen. Right now he pretty much hangs out at his friends house all the time, and I used to come over and sleep over there with him all the time. Now he tells me I can't. And since his parents are trying to get him to move out, they won't let me come over either. It seems so hard to see him. Last night when he was telling me I had to leave, I responded "Fine, why don't you just call me when you have a job and a place so we can hang out," Too harsh?