Originally Posted by Fyesteema4
When I met my boyfriend he was living with his parents. He has lived on his own before but had moved back in to save money. His parents gave him a time to move out by and he was looking for a place when he lost his job. Oh, and by the way, he doesn't have his license, or a car, or a cell phone! I have actually gone apartment shopping for him, yet he doesn't follow up. He can also get his license back by paying a reinstatement fee, but he hasn't. He's looking for a job now, but everything is going so slow, and he doesn't want/isn't taking my help. I want to be supportive but I don't want a loser boyfriend. What should I do and what do I say to him???
I don't see how this is your problem. Thats his problem and all you should be concerned with is if you love him or not. Do you have your own job? If so then why are you worried about his? It doesnt make him a loser just because he has no money.
Also I have a feeling that all the people telling you to hit the road are going to be girls.
Originally Posted by Fawn
One thing to remember is that you can not change your bf/gf.
Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86
I think honestly this is more about you.
I believe these above are the key sentences and some-were in them are the answers.