So? Guys stare at me every time I go out.... isnt that normal for an average looking chick?

Look. If this guy wanted to be with you, he would be with you. All these things you say are his way of sugercoating everything. He might care for ya, but theres so much more to a relationship than caring for someone. If he wanted to be with you he would... its really that simple! When a guy is interested in you and only you, you'll know it! For example, my ex Chris, he and I still see each other all the time. We arent together because we know that as soon as we get back together things will go awry again, but I know he loves me and wants to be with me someday because he refuses to date anyone else. Any amount of spare time he has, he comes over here.
Wait for a guy like that

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