Hey again, Converse.

I remember posting on your last post about the text, or at least reading about it. To COAD's response, I'd agree with him. I especially agree with his statement, "If I like a girl alot, I'm not gonna go look for other girls, unless something is wrong in the relationship". Good words to take heed of.

There is COAD's side, which takes into consideration that little piece... plus that your boyfriend has stayed with you and spends a lot of time with you (I remember you saying that). I will add what was from the last thread. You sort of have reason not to trust him because of that text.. especially because he sent it to his ex. I don't think you're over it... I think you still wonder about it. And I think it's going to take time to get over it... that is, if you haven't talked to him about it. And then comes, if you talk to him about it and he says what you want to hear (that it was a joke), would you believe him? These are the MAJOR questions in the relationship.

The relationship is going through some turmoil right now, but it seems only you know about it. It's a decision of whether to make it open or not. If you don't you may always be jealous... you may constantly think that he's doing more than sending suggestive texts. And that ends up in you never trusting him.

I think that this has become really hard: the situation has tainted your trust for him. Honestly, in a relationship... I don't exactly know if that is easily overcome. I think you may have to look elsewhere for answers to that question. These are merely the thoughts that come to my mind. Good luck to you.

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