The message I sent her was a reply to one she sent me about having an angel who hits people with her love and friendship, and she had told it to beat the shit out of me, so I replied that now I'd get a lot of bruises... She didn't think of the message she had just sent me, when she saw mine, so she thought I had had an accident working on my car or something...

And yeah, ofcourse her son is her number one priority, and I've also told her a couple of times that she should never put anything above him nomatter what!
She has been divorced for about two years, if I recall correctly, and she had a relationship with my colleague (that was very inofficial though) for about a year that ended just before new years, so she's been single for about 5 months now...

We started seeing each other as friends about 3 or 4 months before that last relationship ended, and I think I made it pretty obvious back then that I was interested (didn't know about my colleague then)... She then told me she had a boyfriend and we saw a lot less of each other for about a month, it was then about 2 weeks after it had been ended, and she invited me to some parties at her place where she told me about him. He has never told me anything about it, even though he knows I'm seeing her (as friends), and she told me he was VERY jelaous back then when he found out we were friends...

I hope I'll be able to "fit in her equation" since we've been spending more and more time together lately and I've been getting along great with her son too. But she's leaving for a weeks holiday tommorrow so I'll have to wait until she's back again