Soul You'll know what to do eventually. Sometimes you really just arent ready for it. At this point I'm sure youre pretty confused because at one end of the spectrum you love her to death, but the other end shows how you guys dont want the same things in life. Everything does happen for a reason, I believe. You do have to compromise in any relationship, especially with a situation like this. It sounds like she did make some effort to compromise with you... thats a good sign. Shes probably pretty afraid to lose you. This is a pretty complicated situation that I think even though we can give you advice on it, we cant really tell you and right or wrong thing to do. Its just up to you. Good luck.

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