Its not only words that re effective in telling a woman you love her....how about all the sweet things you can do for her: long romantic hand-holding walks in parks, by the sea, intimate candle lit dinners, picnics, rollerblading, doing the little things she asks you to do without questioning...flowers are always a big hit, maybe something original like a bunch of beautiful tulips or cala lilies....whatever her fav flower is....friendship rings/necklances are nice too...a sappy card once in awhile is nice as well....just my 2 cents