Lovelylady i think you should dump this guy who constantly pulls your chain and make some time for yourself. You said:

" I've just come to the conclusion that hes a 14 year old stuck in a 28 year old body. I dont know if hes joking when he says the things he says or not, but man he doesnt make any sense lol."

Well this, to me, is a sign he is not ready for a real relationship with you. Sounds liek he is just horny. He needs time to grow up a little more. Do you seriously want to waste anymore of your precious time on a guy that jerks you around by playing mind games ? Life is too short for that! Go find a real man!!! Believe it or not they still do exist! you go girl!!