hi there L

first of all a request ...please dont phrase it like " when my plumbing goes rotten" ... please

u r not asking much ... is he the independant type or does he prefer to be served breakfast .... ?

intimacy and a higher level of commitment are ur right to ask for after such a long time and as u phrase it ... u have only been meeting in hotels ....

ask him straight what his plans are ... u want kids which is a great thing to have but not with someone who doesnt want to have them ... ask hime honestly and straight whether he is prepared for commitment or all he wants is sex .....

tell him u lov him and that u care for him but vbeing a maid is not included in that package ...

also one more thing L, never love a man who doesnt love his mother ,,,, so atleast he has one thing right...

best of luck and keep us informed

Hussain

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