Hi Hussain;

Is this really true>??? Do many men vacillate alot and could it be because they are actually afraid of getting hurt, whether it be emotionally, financially or on another level >???

Problem is, when some men do this to their woman, they drive her away since the woman feels he's being non-committal...I broke up with my ex-hub b/c he wouldn't agree to getting a house, getting a good job, starting a family, etc...so what happens, after the breakup he comes back bawling his eyes out to me and says his willing to do all that....blah blah ...aargh

"not many men actually know what they want ...... "