| Question on what to do... Alright, new to the forums so got a question.
I started to date this girl about 3 or so months before summer started...Everything was great, I had no complaints nor did she. This summer, she left school, and is working at a camp for kids with disabilities in Arizona.
I have barely talked to her the last 4 weeks since shes left. She claims her cell phone does not have serivce, which it may not. So when she calls me she has to walk to the other side of the camp or something...
We knew things were sour, we talked about it, and she basically told me that she still cares for me dearly, thinks im the one, but right now she needs to devote herself entirely to what she is doing.
Its been 7 days, still havent gotten a call. Sent her a package, got a reply 2 days later that was a sentence long.
I feel that I am the only one who is even trying to maintain this relationship. I have tried to have some patience, but I just cant anymore...I dont feel like I am in a relationship or anything cause she obviously isnt showing she cares for me.
I dont want her to think its gonna be like this all summer and then in two months when she comes back to school things are gonna be how they are before.
What is the best way to have a final approach to this situation to figure out what to do.
I really care for this girl and want to be with her, however at the same time I need to think that I am being cared for too..
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