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mahouyuki
01-09-06, 03:01 PM
This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
Any tips on how to be more confdent for the shy and not-so-confident?

Junket
01-09-06, 03:06 PM
Practice Practice Practice

mahouyuki
01-09-06, 03:07 PM
Practice Practice Practice

And exactly how/what do you supose people should practise?

Venacava
01-09-06, 03:44 PM
It depends what you want to be confident in. Do you want to be confident within yourself or when it comes to approaching girls/boys?
Depends.
But it is practice.

Junket
01-09-06, 11:49 PM
Start with push ups.

Gigabitch
01-09-06, 11:55 PM
Start with push ups, and then move on to interactions with strangers, like the grocery clerk or the bus driver. Start saying hi when you don't have to.

Tiay
02-09-06, 12:07 AM
if somebody gives you a compliment, say thank you! a lot of people don't, they're like "oh it's nothing", etc.

Junket
02-09-06, 12:07 AM
Holy crap Giga, you're 38??

Gigabitch
02-09-06, 12:17 AM
Holy crap Giga, you're 38??

Did you think I could have packed all the stuff I've been through in my life into less time than that?

Junket
02-09-06, 12:58 AM
Did you think I could have packed all the stuff I've been through in my life into less time than that?

That's just it though.

As I mentioned before.

I really don't know much about yours or Vash's past.

Don't know what brought you to where you are today.

Gigabitch
02-09-06, 01:32 AM
It would be an irresponsible use of bandwidth to tell you the whole story of how I went from Bitch to Megabitch to Gigabitch.

Hmmm. Maybe you could put together a 20 questions thread with the things you most want to know about everyone here. For instance, one question could be:

Describe your parents in three words.

My answer would definitely NOT be "Ozzie and Harriet"

Anyway, I'd do it myself, but I have to go now and take my barking lunatic mother out to lunch for her birthday.

C-ya.

Junket
02-09-06, 02:13 AM
20 questions, eh?

I don't like such formalities.

Then again, it's not easy to talk with you guys one on one in here...

I dunno, I might come up with somethin'.

King Zarathu
02-09-06, 04:52 AM
It would be an irresponsible use of bandwidth to tell you the whole story of how I went from Bitch to Megabitch to Gigabitch.

I love you. :love:

Kiechi
02-09-06, 06:59 AM
This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
Any tips on how to be more confdent for the shy and not-so-confident?

Be confident with yourself. Simple as.

Cyrus255
03-09-06, 11:41 AM
Just do it. Nike style.

To be honest, I used to be really lacking in self-confidence.

One method that worked extremely well for me, was to consistently joke about being better than everyone else.

That way, most people don't take it offensively, but then I still voice confidence.

Mantras really do work. Just say something to prop up your ego over and over while meditating.

Watch the positive changes! They will happen! Reality is a manifestation of belief!

mahouyuki
03-09-06, 11:50 AM
[QUOTE=Cyrus255;220746]
One method that worked extremely well for me, was to consistently joke about being better than everyone else.

That way, most people don't take it offensively, but then I still voice confidence.
QUOTE]

That could backfire and make people think that you've got a huge ego...?

Kiechi
03-09-06, 07:40 PM
[QUOTE=Cyrus255;220746]
One method that worked extremely well for me, was to consistently joke about being better than everyone else.

That way, most people don't take it offensively, but then I still voice confidence.
QUOTE]

That could backfire and make people think that you've got a huge ego...?

Which it does. The above method isn't too bad but I don't advise you to constantly keep reinserting that your better than everyone.

Is there anything about yourself that you don't feel so confident about?

mahouyuki
03-09-06, 07:50 PM
Umm.... Im ultra shy around ppl i dont kno... and even ppl that i do kno but just not really close to them

Kiechi
03-09-06, 08:13 PM
Umm.... Im ultra shy around ppl i dont kno... and even ppl that i do kno but just not really close to them

How to over come shyness

1. Make it a point to express what you feel or think at least once a day with friends or family even though you're shy, your shyness won't bite. Try to do the same with a complete stranger 1 a week.

2. When looking at mirrors make to compliment yourself out loud or in your head. Say things you would tell someone you love or deeply care about.

3. Understand that you can only be yourself. Know what you want and try to make up your mind quicker but stay very precautious. Its always best to be safe then sorry.

Shyness can be something that you have complete control over if you know how to take care of yourself and find courage in the truth. See the links bellow for further advice.

Something I found. Hope it helps.