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cheeze_guy
10-05-07, 10:40 AM
I dont know if anyone else has this problem but like im a skinny guy im not anorexic like i work out and i am tall but why is it that I seem to attract big girls? Like yo why is it like they're drawn to me? lol weird question but i dont get it! its not like i dont have sexy friends but it just seems that i attract big ones!

HaHa

bluesummer
10-05-07, 11:44 AM
Is that ALL you attract? Or are you just ridiculously aware of every 'larger' girl that hits on you?

Shit, not once have I ever noticed what specific body types are hitting on me. They could all be bigger guys but I have no ****in clue.

vashti
10-05-07, 01:06 PM
What do you mean "big girls"? Big compared to you? Because if you are really thin, that probably isn't hard to do.

Anyway, I think one should always be flattered if someone shows an interest in them. It won't last forever, believe me. That doesn't mean you have to reciprocate their interest - just be nice.

Only-virgins
10-05-07, 01:34 PM
There is more evidence! I made a thread a while ago here or on a forum called FF about how fat chicks get with thin guys and thin chicks are getting with bigger guys! lol. I am thin myself but I have a nice build in my opinion...I am not super skinny...I don't notice any thin chicks checking me out...but I don't notice the fat ones either...probably cause I don't care to look their way to be honest.

Just ignore them, they will go away..if not..throw a hamburger in one direction and run in the other.

Like Vash said, putting all jokes aside....I would always be flattered that someone and anyone likes me no matter who they are or what they look like...what would bother me more is that the thinner girls that I am more attracted to are not showing interest in me.

all alone
19-05-07, 12:42 PM
actually that does sound kinda familiar.. im pretty tall and weigh only 170 and the only person who has been interested in me (as far as I know) in last year or so was a bigger chick..

Gribble
19-05-07, 01:11 PM
OV, I think if you were a little less abrasive you wouldn't have much problem picking up thin girls.

vashti
19-05-07, 01:30 PM
I prefer thicker guys, personally.

Only-virgins
20-05-07, 01:02 AM
OV, I think if you were a little less abrasive you wouldn't have much problem picking up thin girls.

What do you mean Gribble?

Only-virgins
20-05-07, 01:15 AM
Anyways, I don't want to be fat not because I think it is unattractive but because I KNOW that it is not healthy.

Ath
20-05-07, 11:47 AM
It's all the same in the end. OV, you know if you wanted a random chick, they're entirely within your grasp. But something tells me you're smarter than I was at your age. :P

Gribble
20-05-07, 01:35 PM
You're sometimes a bit aggressive, OV. I think if you were more relaxed you'd find it a lot easier to attract the women you want.

LostNotFound
20-05-07, 11:29 PM
What do you mean "big girls"? Big compared to you? Because if you are really thin, that probably isn't hard to do.

Anyway, I think one should always be flattered if someone shows an interest in them. It won't last forever, believe me. That doesn't mean you have to reciprocate their interest - just be nice.

i agree with vashti.
i'm not fat but next to my SO i look lwe look like the number 10 well we don't really but i think feel fat. maybe its just cause your thin. i think i always attract pervert old men. ergh i was meant to ask if any one knows why..anyone? do u no?

vashti
21-05-07, 01:10 AM
i agree with vashti.
i'm not fat but next to my SO i look lwe look like the number 10 well we don't really but i think feel fat. maybe its just cause your thin. i think i always attract pervert old men. ergh i was meant to ask if any one knows why..anyone? do u no?

Perverted old men hit on girls who look like they need attention: shy girls, latch-key girls, girls with no father around. They are trying to capitalize on your vulnerability, those bastards. Don't let them near you.

Only-virgins
21-05-07, 01:41 AM
Perverted old men hit on girls who look like they need attention: shy girls, latch-key girls, girls with no father around. They are trying to capitalize on your vulnerability, those bastards. Don't let them near you.

What is a latch-key girl? Anyways, I wouldn't hit on a girl that is way to loud and definitely not trying to pick up a girl with her father around lol. I don't think those are qualities of a perverted old man, I think they just go for the young looking ones. I have that problem too! I keep getting gay man hitting on me in clubs........lol...freaking assholes.


You're sometimes a bit aggressive, OV. I think if you were more relaxed you'd find it a lot easier to attract the women you want.

I am not aggressive in person, I am very quiet...believe it or not

Tiay
21-05-07, 03:04 AM
i think i always attract pervert old men. ergh i was meant to ask if any one knows why..anyone? do u no?

yup, happened to me too. Look at it this way- in my class, i'm one of the youngest, shyest, least independent girls in my class. Also, not to be vain, but a C cup is hard to hide on a 120 lb body.

Only-virgins
21-05-07, 08:59 AM
yup, happened to me too. Look at it this way- in my class, i'm one of the youngest, shyest, least independent girls in my class. Also, not to be vain, but a C cup is hard to hide on a 120 lb body.

You sound really hot...jeez....and don't worry..I am not a perverted old man so don't freak out. I am a perverted young man.

Gigabitch
22-05-07, 01:28 AM
What is a latch-key girl? Anyways, I wouldn't hit on a girl that is way to loud and definitely not trying to pick up a girl with her father around lol. I don't think those are qualities of a perverted old man, I think they just go for the young looking ones. I have that problem too! I keep getting gay man hitting on me in clubs........lol...freaking assholes.



I am not aggressive in person, I am very quiet...believe it or not

Maybe you're a perverted old man waiting to happen, heh heh. You'll be in the park in 50 years hitting on girls who won't even be born until 2036.

Only-virgins
22-05-07, 01:48 AM
Maybe you're a perverted old man waiting to happen, heh heh. You'll be in the park in 50 years hitting on girls who won't even be born until 2036.

*shrugs* ...no.

anachronistic
22-05-07, 06:16 AM
Maybe you're a perverted old man waiting to happen, heh heh. You'll be in the park in 50 years hitting on girls who won't even be born until 2036.

in 50 years i hope to see hovering vehicles in the streets and anti-grav technology.

Tiay
22-05-07, 06:24 AM
You sound really hot...jeez....and don't worry..I am not a perverted old man so don't freak out. I am a perverted young man.

that's good to know, OV. and to think a few months ago I was still a virgin...

Only-virgins
22-05-07, 10:21 AM
tand to think a few months ago I was still a virgin...

Damn .......... :sad2:

GratefulOne
04-06-07, 04:31 AM
Maybe that's what you notice... but it's not just you- or just them!

YourBestFriend
09-06-07, 11:33 PM
why bother with the fact that those girls are "big"?

just enjoy the fact that girls like you and hit on you

Ephemeral Dream
10-06-07, 03:35 AM
yup, happened to me too. Look at it this way- in my class, i'm one of the youngest, shyest, least independent girls in my class. Also, not to be vain, but a C cup is hard to hide on a 120 lb body.

Just wondering... how tall are you?

Steve2004
10-06-07, 03:49 AM
i never thought about it...but when i weighed like..30 lbs more than i do now, i did have smaller boyfriends. then when i lost weight (because i was chubby :[ ) i got a meatier guy. crazy! But maybe that was because i was tired of feeling like the COW in all of my relationships. hard to know.

Gigabitch
10-06-07, 05:17 AM
i never thought about it...but when i weighed like..30 lbs more than i do now, i did have smaller boyfriends. then when i lost weight (because i was chubby :[ ) i got a meatier guy. crazy! But maybe that was because i was tired of feeling like the COW in all of my relationships. hard to know.

Was it all that exercise you got walking home when your ex threw you out of the car for not being a virgin?

And was that guy, by the way, the one who was shorter than you but thought he was the shit?

Steve2004
10-06-07, 06:49 AM
Was it all that exercise you got walking home when your ex threw you out of the car for not being a virgin?


And was that guy, by the way, the one who was shorter than you but thought he was the shit?

yes and yes

Gigabitch
12-06-07, 04:15 AM
yes and yes

Post a pic of him and I'll Photoshop him into Bozo the clown.

Tiay
12-06-07, 11:52 PM
Just wondering... how tall are you?

5'5

aiming for 113 pounds tho. not sure that's gonna happen in the city full of yummy food though .. :tough: