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KeeJay
11-03-08, 09:29 AM
i am wondering how some of you deal with your stress, i have been very stressed out lately and am looking for ways of dealing with it. all i do is chain smoke and think about it and i know thats not healthy at all

misombra
11-03-08, 09:40 AM
it's different for everyone.

for me, i play my guitar, draw, write, go to the mountains (which are conveniently close by), or just come in here and vent!

KeeJay
11-03-08, 09:57 AM
if i had money i would go to drugs to forget about why i am stressed, but i know that they are only temporary fixes. i am writing why i am stressed out in the love advice but its taking me a while since it hurts and is causing more stress and i keep needing to go outside to have another smoke lol

Illusional
11-03-08, 09:57 AM
why would you do a double take on yourself? you do something bad to escape reality, and then you ponder on how it's messing up your life. relax more and enjoy these happy times, because that's how i do it. i don't worry about what tomorrow will bring. i live for today.

raverboy

KeeJay
11-03-08, 10:06 AM
why would you do a double take on yourself? you do something bad to escape reality, and then you ponder on how it's messing up your life. relax more and enjoy these happy times, because that's how i do it. i don't worry about what tomorrow will bring. i live for today.

raverboy

I normally have the same outlook that you do, but my emotions have been real hard on me lately and i need a way of dealing with it

Illusional
11-03-08, 10:28 AM
I normally have the same outlook that you do, but my emotions have been real hard on me lately and i need a way of dealing with it

that's why in this time you should be stronger. why would you let your emotions get the best of you? usually when i'm in a state near to this, i spend more time with my friends drinking and letting off steam, because this is only a phase that will pass.

raverboy

walahaha
11-03-08, 12:44 PM
I think it would be good to find out the root of the stress and slowly worked on it...

Smoking instead increase stress, financially....

However abit of stress something is good....

Tedel
12-03-08, 01:10 AM
if i had money i would go to drugs to forget about why i am stressed, but i know that they are only temporary fixes. i am writing why i am stressed out in the love advice but its taking me a while since it hurts and is causing more stress and i keep needing to go outside to have another smoke lol

Come on, don't do that... If you are really that stressed, go to a church and pray awhile. It's much better than feeding a mafia. Who knows? It may even help you feel better.

Edit: I haven't read your thread yet, but as I see where this is leading to, you are probably loving this girl not as much as yourself but instead of yourself... and that's not good news, amigo.

MadKat
12-03-08, 07:22 PM
today i learn from a girlfirend of mine, how to counter stressed.

She told me, stressed is actually desserts in reversed. You just have to relax, take your time and enjoy it. Then you will see things from different angle, many things happen for a reason. Whatever the reason is, it is definitely going to change our course/path/life and make us tougher. You might not see it now, but you'll be thankful in the future that it happened.