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01-06-08, 03:04 AM
There really needs to be a forum area just for writing random thoughts, whatnot, pertaining to relationship issues. Sometimes people just want to get things off their chest or discuss things that may not have a specific question, may not be heartbroken in nature, etc etc.

Anyway, Love is an interesting thing. I've been single now for a year, I continue to be friends with my Ex. We're in contact (online anyways) just about every day, but at this time we are nothing more than friends. Every time I see her, about once every few weeks, I once again feel deep emotions for her. She looks fabulous and I love being around her. I get jealous, sometimes, when I think shes interested in someone else. Normal, I know....

But heres the thing. We're not right for eachother. I know that, its very clear. We were not happy when we were a couple, and there are things about her that just dont work for me. She always thinks she is right, she can be quite selfish, and a mega 'Itch if you get my drift. There are plenty of times when I find myself asking what I see in this girl. Of course I too have my faults too that contributed to our difficulties, not to make this one sided. :D

Such a strange dicotamy really. Your brain tells you one thing and yet your heart doesnt want to hear it. It reminds me of a song lyric, "You never stop loving somebody, you just start loving somebody else."

As I hinted at before, I'm not heartbroken, I'm not putting life on hold, or anything like that. Just something I've found interesting and I felt like sharing.

01-06-08, 04:49 AM
TAVS good to hear from you man.

And I will agree it is interesting... having similar feelings w/ my own ex.

01-06-08, 05:04 AM
I think a lot of relationships have that certain "something" that no one can explain ... No matter how much you try to rationalize it, you simply can't ...

Good to see ya, TAVs ... It's been ages.

01-06-08, 08:17 AM
Hi TAVS. That just means that you have balls like a man and you're lusting.

01-06-08, 11:24 AM
Wow, even Tone is alive. Pears, too funny. :D

One of these days I'll find time to get out there again, but generally I've just been too busy for dating. Well you know that, I've been MIA :D

01-06-08, 11:26 AM
Comin' and goin'.

01-06-08, 01:29 PM
Good to see you Tavs :)

02-06-08, 11:59 AM
ARGH! Sometimes I want to strangle that woman!

02-06-08, 12:50 PM
Hey T, good to see you.

I hope you're not letting her stand in somebody else's way. You're too cute to waste.

02-06-08, 01:00 PM
Nope, no need to worry. I'm a slave to my work. Each month I sware the following month I will take back my life, someday it will happen. lol.

02-06-08, 01:01 PM
How's your dog?

06-06-08, 05:13 AM
Damn, I seem to have missed you. :(

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06-06-08, 11:00 AM
Ich frage mich, welche Farbe die Scheiße die schwimmt in deinem Kopf ist, Boobaa.

06-06-08, 11:46 AM

09-06-08, 10:22 AM
I had too much to drink the other night and started playing footsies with a female co-worker. A group of us singles were out at the bar having a good time. Wonder if she'll say anything tomorrow when we're back at work, lol. Dating co-workers is never a good idea, stupid alcohol anyway.... :P

09-06-08, 10:23 AM
oooooooooooo footsieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

09-06-08, 10:26 AM
Is she single?

09-06-08, 10:28 AM
if i were single and i worked with tavs i would definitely do more than try to play footsie with him.

09-06-08, 10:28 AM
Yea shes single, we're friends at work, but I dont think we have a lot in common. I have a little crush on her but I know its not a good idea, the alcohol just clouded my judgement

09-06-08, 10:29 AM
Didn't you work with the last girl?

09-06-08, 10:30 AM
Yea and look how that turned out. :P

09-06-08, 10:38 AM
Yeah, but she was a little bit nuts, right? Is this one crazy, too?

09-06-08, 10:42 AM
No not nuts just a bitch.

This girl at work isnt crazy either, and pretty smart, working on her masters right now actually. But you're dodging my point, its not a good idea. I was just posting more ramblings as I await tomorrow.

09-06-08, 10:52 AM
I think you should play footsies with her at work next time.

09-06-08, 11:03 AM
i think you should throw her on the copy machine.

09-06-08, 11:06 AM
... and then post the photo copy for us to see.

09-06-08, 11:07 AM
Have you two been drinking? Lol

09-06-08, 11:10 AM
Not yet. Are you buying? :)

09-06-08, 11:13 AM
For you two, anytime

09-06-08, 11:20 AM
For you two, anytime

Thanks, cowboy!

Here's a song for you.

YouTube - Kid Rock-Cowboy

09-06-08, 11:25 AM
That trans am is HOT. I did sing Save A Horse, Ride A Cowboy at the bar that night.... lol

09-06-08, 11:25 AM
Nah - that last song is not your style. This one is for you:

YouTube - My heros have always been Cowboys.

EDIT: There is a song called save a horse ride a cowboy?

::runs to look::

09-06-08, 11:31 AM
Hey, look at that! I didn't realize it was an actual song!

YouTube - Big & Rich - Save A Horse [Ride A Cowboy] (Video)

09-06-08, 11:32 AM
You're right, it doesnt get better than that Shh!!!! (The Willie song)

09-06-08, 11:34 AM
YouTube - Paula Cole - Where Have All The Cowboys Gone? (Video)

09-06-08, 11:37 AM
Good night, TAVS. Don't be a stranger.

10-06-08, 11:35 PM
Ich frage mich, welche Farbe die Scheiße die schwimmt in deinem Kopf ist, Boobaa.

Es ist die gleiche Scheiße wie in allen anderen, so müssen Sie sich einen Reim darauf machen auf eigene Faust, Americanische Fritzu!

21-06-08, 09:23 AM
Can I take a moment to brag? Is that alright?

So picture this. Six women, Myself, a Limo...... this is going to be a great Saturday Night

21-06-08, 09:47 AM
Pictures, or it didn't happen.

21-06-08, 11:38 AM
I'll see what I can do but we usually practice the "Stays In Vegas" rule when we go out. But God bless you for changing your name old-school