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JaneH
28-06-09, 05:28 PM
If members are going to harass others members out of disagreement then accuse the same harassed member of trolling because that member reacted, those doing the harassing need to get themselves checked.

Ethugs are not welcome.

Doc Durian
28-06-09, 05:33 PM
Nor are insincere types who incompetently offer their bad advice as good advice despite the facts submitted by the questioners.

Example:

A four page thread where the above poster talked out of her bottom after others politely asked that she reconsider.

http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/31289-does-he-just-think-me-friend.html#post467091

And then continued on well past the point of reasoning.

JaneH
28-06-09, 05:48 PM
My "[ insincere and incompentently] bad advice" is your OPINION.

The possibility exists that perhaps your so expert and qualified advice is not so expert and qualified in others eyes and your further provocation is not so sincere itself.

What's your point.

Three against one over four pages?

Hell yes I'd qualify that as the insincere!

ecojeanne
28-06-09, 05:50 PM
well i had a goo at the spoken thread and everyone is entitled to their opinion. jane your ego was bruised when doc diagreed and then you started name calling...not exactly mature sane behavior of an adult. but then again lots of adults have issues with pride...they even end up lashing out at people.....think about it....you asked for it!

Yggdrasil
28-06-09, 05:51 PM
Doc,

I really wish I could contribute to this thread but it wouldn't be fair since not all sides would be represented equaly.


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This message is hidden because JaneH is on your ignore list.

Sorry doll.. once you're on there, you're not comming off.

Doc Durian
28-06-09, 05:54 PM
You ignored what the threader stated and contrived utter bollocks based on what only can be conceived as your own damage in the first 1-2 pages, refused to take multiple suggestions from multiple people that you were off base (so far, without more info forthcoming as yet) and proceeded to sink into the despairs of internet attention whoring and troll behaviour, albeit poorly done.

All in all, you fail.

Next!

Doc Durian
28-06-09, 05:56 PM
Doc,

I really wish I could contribute to this thread but it wouldn't be fair since not all sides would be represented equaly.



Sorry doll.. once you're on there, you're not comming off.

I'd help a brother out, so I won't quote her crap and you can thank me later.

JaneH
28-06-09, 05:56 PM
ecojeanne

doc d was the first the start making accusations that I was in the wrong about my so-called "luggage"

Then ygg came in accusing me of trolling.

Unfortunately, I strongly disagree and feel that they attacked me first, period.

Doc Durian
28-06-09, 05:58 PM
Oh god... now the attention whore trolling really begins to start:horror:

JaneH
28-06-09, 05:59 PM
doc d

eff off hypocrite troll

Doc Durian
28-06-09, 06:03 PM
doc d

eff off hypocrite troll

I've had enough of your shenanigans.

The mod will have a look at the thread url you somehow failed to point to in your initial post, and then make an informed decision about how you labelled a woman fat and a man a player when no physical attributes were ever given.

From there, your apparent disregard for chivalry will glow like a flashing red light.

The mod will act according to their judgement, and that will be it.

Good day, troll.

ecojeanne
28-06-09, 06:03 PM
jane my advice is when you disagree with someone try not to be as agressive. you came off as the most aggressive and believe me i am very much pro newbie. so just take it easy on people here. they are not that bad once you get to know them, yes they will sometimes band together when a newbie gets aggressive but thats coz we get a lot of trolls and they are assuming you are another one since your responses didn't discuss the issue but they're disagreement with you. everyone disagree's from time to time but they are taken seriously if they back themselves up. you didn't have to respond to doc...you could have left your statment for the OP to either consider or not.

Yggdrasil
28-06-09, 06:10 PM
jane my advice is when you disagree with someone try not to be as agressive. you came off as the most aggressive and believe me i am very much pro newbie. so just take it easy on people here. they are not that bad once you get to know them, yes they will sometimes band together when a newbie gets aggressive but thats coz we get a lot of trolls and they are assuming you are another one since your responses didn't discuss the issue but they're disagreement with you. everyone disagree's from time to time but they are taken seriously if they back themselves up. you didn't have to respond to doc...you could have left your statment for the OP to either consider or not.

Thanks... hence.. we all get some heat sometimes.. we don't act like immature little children about it, cursing and name calling.

Some people simply don't seem to know when to shut up (not talking about you eco).

Doc and I have our arguments, Vahsti and I have our disagreements... you name it... we don't troll eachother over it.

It's ok to agree to disagree. Bottom line.

JaneH
28-06-09, 06:24 PM
ygg

here's one of my biggest developing pet peeves

If some can't deal with my being naturally aggressive/tactless and take offense to it when I had no intention of ill will then that is on them.

Truly, nothing is more...disgusting--really-than ethugs who don't even know the half of someone they've no chance to ever befriend offline--that is just my natural reaction. That is not to be bigheaded at all, truly. I just find it funny from past experiences the numerous folks that talked forever online but never had a chance with me in reality (for I did meet them) Funny life. They come off to me as really fake--if that means anything at all. It's one in like a thousand that has something to show for after all the pompous talk. But whatever.

I guess that is just something I will have to disregard. As far as changing my ways, I don't believe in following the masses that never led me led me anywhere. It's a just a cold reality.

Doc Durian
28-06-09, 06:34 PM
ygg

here's one of my biggest developing pet peeves

If some can't deal with my being naturally aggressive/tactless and take offense to it when I had no intention of ill will then that is on them.

Truly, nothing is more...disgusting--really-than ethugs who don't even know the half of someone they've no chance to ever befriend offline--that is just my natural reaction. That is not to be bigheaded at all, truly. I just find it funny from past experiences the numerous folks that talked forever online but never had a chance with me in reality (for I did meet them) Funny life. They come off to me as really fake--if that means anything at all. It's one in like a thousand that has something to show for after all the pompous talk. But whatever.

I guess that is just something I will have to disregard. As far as changing my ways, I don't believe in following the masses that never led me led me anywhere. It's a just a cold reality.




EXCUSE ME!!! pardon me..... would you ever so mind for just a mere moment, being quiet and attentive when someone else points something out, you know..... "logical"?

Your comments in that thread had nothing to do with the initial post. Nothing was said about gender or body proportions, but you somehow gleened such from absolute thin air.

When you were asked to reconsider.... instead of think about the "logic".... you lost the plot.

4 pages later, you've decided to go for gold and enlist the services of a mod suddenly (for what, I still can't fathom as you've yet to make, again, a "logical" point in any of this)

My suggestion to you, for the future, is to think before you blab.

Do you realize that people who come to this forum come for advice and a small percentage of them come in very delicate fragile packages?

Talking absolute shite to someone who's teetering on the edge of indecision is not only a bastard of a thing to do, but it could have physical repercussions in real life.

You have a responsibility to behave yourself.

If you can't do that, you need to bugger off someplace else where you can't do any damage to anyone besides your lonesome self.

JaneH
28-06-09, 06:39 PM
Apparently your logic is not my logic.

I didn't know I was damaging anyone and truly believe I was helping someone.

Guess not.

Doc Durian
28-06-09, 06:48 PM
Look, I'll tone down my language and state it in plain uncondescending terms like we never had a spat.

If you came here, ever so fragile and confused, asking for advice about someone you dumped or dumped you, married or not... possibly with small children or not, and someone didn't weigh their words correctly... what affect would that have on you? To most, they'd take it with a grain of salt. But we're dealing with the internet. Numerous more people read rather than register or write. Some people rely on the internet more than you and I can fathom. It's their only reprieve and source of information.

You're entitled to your opinions and I, mine. But the reply has to suit the post or thread to a T. I can't inject my damage, and have to be on guard for that happening, just as you're expected to offer outwardly sage advice.

Again, we might have different views, but as Ecojeanne mentioned... it's got to be on topic, it's got to be relevant more or less.

Maybe I've busted your chops too much, and for that, I apologize. But I don't want to see anyone walk away with more damage than they walked in with.

Again, it's a responsibility I hold dear to my heart and I defend it as such.

Yggdrasil
28-06-09, 06:49 PM
Doc.. you're my hero....

Illusional
29-06-09, 05:03 AM
ethugs huh?? that's a new one.

raverboy

IndiReloaded
29-06-09, 07:29 AM
Apparently your logic is not my logic.

And thank goodness^.

You can tell when schools out for summer. The young ones come online w/their half-baked opinions demanding respect they have yet to earn. LOL.

YouTube - 2 Together - Summer Time Is Here (extended mix)

misombra
29-06-09, 07:34 AM
hey you don't make the rules around here!

ethugs are vital members of this community and are totally welcome.

now shut the fuk up.

Gigabitch
30-06-09, 01:12 AM
You want to see an e-thug? Keep whinging and I'll give you an infraction, Jane.

Illusional
01-07-09, 02:32 PM
whoa.. that's stacy keibler.. she's f*cking hot.

raverboy