How do guys decide if a girl is one-night stand material or girlfriend material?
I am in no way what you would consider a slut or easy or anything of the sort. Far from it in fact. I've been raised the old fashioned way, to believe that intimacy or anything sexual should occur between two people who care about each other.
I'm rather a modest person at times, and the only time I flirt is when I meet someone I like and want to have a relationship with.
So why is it that every guy who meets me seems to think that I'm the kind of girl they can just 'pump and dump'.
Is there something guys see in a girl that makes them think she'll be an easy conquest, or do they just try it with anyone and hope for the best?
It used to not bother me because I'd just tell them to get lost, but now it's happened so many times I'm wondering if there's something I'm projecting that's getting misread by all the guys out there. I'm tired of guys trying to use me all the time.