Question.

[Google'd]

My girlfriend and I sometimes enjoy phone sex every now and then while being away from each other. I know it seems nerdy and weird to some. However, in efforts to turn her on sometimes, I find myself saying things that happen to turn myself on more. For instance, the other night, I thought of an idea for her to start talking about her with another girl. She is not bi-sexual, and she got displeased with the idea after the second night of trying it.

Basically, my question to you all is, is it all that wrong to fantasize about things of this nature? And is it wrong for me to tell her that I like that idea?

Thanks for all your answers, and help. It's greatly appreciated.

[vashti]

I don't think it is wrong to fantasize about it, however if she is not comfortable participating in your fantasy, it would be wrong for you to insist.

[Google'd]

I don't think it is wrong to fantasize about it, however if she is not comfortable participating in your fantasy, it would be wrong for you to insist.

Yes, that's the prime reason of me stopping. I didn't want things to boil over for something so silly.

[Ellynn]

Yeah, how would you feel if she started talking about you with another guy? Um, yeah, if shes not diggin it....CUT IT OUT ASAP!

[mini696]

Agree with the above posts... There is nothing wrong with talking through your fantasies, but if your partner doesnt share them they must remain our own.

[RollingonremZ]

I don't think it is wrong to fantasize about it, however if she is not comfortable participating in your fantasy, it would be wrong for you to insist.

i agree with vashti

[Google'd]

Weird, one night she's not liking it, and the next she's all over the idea. She started an all out fest with it. It got her going pretty damed well, too.

Thanks for all of the advice guys, I really appreciate it.

[mini696]

She might like the "idea" of a threesome, but not want to have the consequential (sic) feeling of jealousy that will come from you ****ing another chick.