when a girl is confused

[sickstunna78]

Do girls confused in relationships after sometime?
like whether or not the relationship is going anywhere and if they should stay in the relationship?

just broke up with 2 year gf over the fact that she says were not going anywhere and that i dont trust her, i do have some insecurities

[miSSleepy]

yeah, anyone can get confused in a relationship and feel things are going nowhere, or things are going wrong.

[sickstunna78]

i understand every relationship has some issues, but do girls want to break it off when they are confused of a relationship?
i thought you were suppose to work it out as a couple, not break up over it, especially after 2 years

[Gigabitch]

I think a lot of girls see two years as the Point of Determination. My friend Lissie, for instance, says that you can't tell anything about a guy until you've been with him two years. Only after that point can you start to make big decisions about him that affect your future, such as marriage and having kids.

Maybe your gf is trying to make her big decision.

[sickstunna78]

she tells me that she wants to marry me and that we picture our lives together with kids. we talked about our future together, and its exciting. I look forward to spending the rest of my life with her. I know i'm In Love with her and shes the one for me.

so i'm not sure why she feels the feelings she feels. how can she be confused about us, when she feels the same and talks about the same things with me.