I think I've messed up

[Going Insane]

I posted a thread about half a year ago about a co worker who was a little bit on the flirty side (read last thread). This still happens, I see her and have lunch every day, the flirtyness continues but I feel now I've missed my chance. Looking back the signs were there but these gradually faded as I did nothing about them. I still think she's a control freak but still fancy her like crazy and I've got to the stage where I'd do everything for her even though I know I shouldn't. The term good friend now appears sealed on my forehead though I'd rather get her out of my mind without been nasty or rude and remain 'friends' as I feel I've messed up completely and she's lost interest (if she was interested)! Please help me all you good people out there.

[Gigabitch]

Are you still with your girlfriend?

[Going Insane]

Yes, but it's very very rocky now we've almost split up. Why would that matter if at the time we were quiet steady she was all trying it on? I appreciate your advice.

[Gigabitch]

You know damned well she's just messing with you and that you're her bitch. I was just curious if she might have cooled off when you and your gf broke up, but you haven't done that, so it's a moot point.

You should wear a string of garlic around your neck to work and see if things improve.

Look, I know I sound harsh, but any woman who throws herself at another woman's man is asking for it. Someday, I hope she gets what she deserves.

[Going Insane]

Thanks for advice Gigabitch. I thought that might be the case but how do I put an end to it without been nasty?

[Going Insane]

And at any point do you think she was interested? All the outragous signs were there and she also said 'I'd make a good bf' but her parents would disaprove (religion) but was it just a plan to get me to be her 'bitch'?