Originally Posted by
guitarboy 
she says i am a very good guy
That means nothing.. that's similar to someone saying.. "I think you're really nice" or, "I think you're really sweet"... "but.."..., it's one of those comforting remarks made to not let the other person fall down too hard.. "don't worry Timmy.. you didn't really lose the soccer game.. nobody is really a loser.. you did score a goal! that's all that really matters right? Didn't you at least have fun? See.. everyone is really a winner.."
Originally Posted by
guitarboy she rated me 7 on 10 on the goodness scale.
What the...? That's not even an overall scale.. an attractiveness scale.. or a personality scale.. what the hell does a "goodness" scale mean anyway?
Originally Posted by
guitarboy i really lover her and want to be with her forever.
(one-itis; n: A mental state a person reaches where they can only think about "one" specific person belonging to the opposite sex "or same sex if they are homosexual". What makes this different from an acceptable romantic-state is that the feelings and emotions are uni-directional and the other person does not feel the same emotions/feelings, therefore one is placed/trapped in this trance where it becomes an obsession and cannot focus on other romantic/sexual partners around them "often times, above and beyond the quality of the person they are obsessed over" and they start to ignore friends, family, and the world around them, this "one" person quickly becomes the center of their universe.)
Now.. one-itis is perfectly acceptable when you're actually "in" a relationship with that other person.. but it's totally unacceptable when you're "out" or more logically sound, "not in" a relationship with someone..
Tell us a little bit more about the situation.. about yourself.. and about her.. It's not like there's some "secret combination" that will work for everyone.. and on that note.. i'll leave you with some eye-candy to help with your one-itis..
(Note: don't forget to vote for her "song" cough cough.. in the Eurovision Song Contest)
Also.. play the video back as many times as you need to.. as you listen to the lyrics and words of the song.. try and think about who this song is targeting.. (it's not like any boy is going to blast this up in his car as he's going around the block).. think about what that means.. at a very basic level.. what a girly mentality is.. part of "female ego"..., "i'm not an open book".. "i'm not easy".. "boy you'll have to ____".. "to WIN a destination to the center of my heart".. all in one song.. and what exactly is this boy winning a destination to? What is the message they as subcommunicating? (yes.. that's right.. it's sex.. she's not exactly singing the song while writing poetry or drawing.. she's shaking her ass in a low-cut dress and somehow dancing in 4-inch heals "every Greek girl can do this btw".. masters of wh0ring themselves out).. so that's all the guy will be "winning" a destination to.. the heart of an "expensive hooker with an ego".. listen to it as many times as you need to.. think of yourself as a little girl listening to this song.. thinking about the guy you like.. and try and imagine yourself absorbing the messages it's giving you.. just try and imagine the fantasy of that guy chasing you.. the validation and sense of being (desired & wanted) you'll get from that chase.. and why that message of "i'm not easy" and "boy you'll have to ___"... just to "WIN a destination to the center of my heart".. holds so much appeal to it's intended and targeted audience & listeners..
When you understand it from the point of view of the targeted listeners.. and get a good feel for a very basic form of & part of "female ego".. you'll do a much better job of avoiding being this guy:
(one-itis.., exactly)
Best,
GrkScorp
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