Guy Friends- Ditch Her? Help please.

[berood001]

So I have been seeing this girl for about a month and a half. We started sleeping together a few weeks ago. We shouldn't be in a relationship because of work anyway.

What I dont get is the guy friends.

This girl goes off on a Saturday night to hang out at some dude's house for 5 hours and go swimming. When she finds out I am hanging out at the bars with a few girls (My Buddy's Wife) she calls me over and over to see if I need a ride back home. I finally consent and she spends the night.

Tonight some random guy showed up for work related stuff and is going to be in town a few days. She ends up going out somewhere with him tonight. I don't know what the deal is? Does she think its just to hang out? Being a guy, I know what hes after. She did live a pretty secluded life, so she could just be naive, but I learned long ago to never underestimate any women.

This happens FREQUENTLY, and she tells me everytime she is hanging out with these guy friends.

I have some SEVERE trust issues. I walked in on one of my ex-girlfriends having sex with some jackoff. I broke my hand in three places when I knocked him out. After that I just dont trust anyone, and it has really messed up my life.

You got to realize I just don't give a damn. I like the girl and I feel like SHIT right now, but it is a simple thing to find another. I am not wasting my time on someone stringing me along.

What should I do? Please help me.

[IndiReloaded]

Tell her it bugs you. Be prepared for the same back. If it continues, dump her.

[Kromat]

Unless you know the guys that she's hanging out with
and can trust, be prepared for the worse to happen.
Talk to her about it for sure, guy friends could be okay as long
as there are other females / males around where it doesn't seem suspicious.
Jealousy ruins a lot of relationship, constantly checking e-mails,
messages, and friends to find out the situation can drive someone nuts.
She seems like a loose cannon at the moment, hopefully you can
figure out something with her, where it doesn't bite you up the ass.