girls, in what sense do you find guys attractive?

[bluesummer]

I'm not in a general habit of checking out men, I'm not sure why. When one does catch my eye, he's usually dark haired and tall. That's just my eye candy though....I don't tend to be drawn romantically towards men that are ridiculously good-looking.

My general turns ons tend to be a warm genuine smile, really tall, and green or blue eyes. My bf fits all these criteria. He also has a really nice body, which is a bonus. I'm generally not against dating bigger guys.....six packs don't do much for me.

[Gigabitch]

He's got to know how to move, too. If he walks really awkwardly, like he's uncomfortable in his own body, that's a total turn-off no matter how pretty he is.

[bluesummer]

Yeah, but if they walk with a swagger that says "I'm the shit"....that's insta-turnoff.

[javagirl87]

i agree with bluesummer.

i dated a guy with a huge ego and it actually ended up taht he was overcompensating for a low self esteem.

edit: and he ended up being a tool a d-bag.