so confused???

[brog0000]

so i meet this girl, we have known eachother for like four weeks. I was with her pretty much every night (not sexually, just like hanging out with her) we have had sex 3 times, the first time being only after a week of knowing eachother. everything is going good, i said i love you she said she loved me. now about the fourth week, she said she needs some space, and that she is not ready to give her heart. ok so i give her some space. a couple days go by i text her to ask her if she wants to go out to dinner. she says taking this time to figure things out-i dont think its there anymore. she asks me what i think, i say i still feel it but i think we went way to fast. and i ask her is ther a reason you dont feel the way u did before. to which she replies i was caught up i wasnt sure all the time. she said we are on two levels "im wild ur reserved i spend ur cautious im loud ur quiet" i dont get it at all!! how can it seem so perfect?? is there any hope? or should i jus move on. any advice? im very sad about it

[lizzy_09]

she replies i was caught up i wasnt sure all the time. she said we are on two levels "im wild ur reserved i spend ur cautious im loud ur quiet"

She might have needed somebody during that time but if she were that into you, she would have given a relationship with you some chances and see how it works.

how can it seem so perfect?? is there any hope? or should i jus move on. any advice?

That's life.

Mary Tyler Moore once quoted "You can't be brave if you've only had wonderful things happen to you."

In my perspective I think you should move on. It's just a normal feeling because your grieving a relationship that you have no control. You can't let go because your still love with her. Don't feel bad about it.