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28-03-08, 12:05 PM
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| | | In my opinion, he just wanted to see if he could get you back. The challenge is now over, so therefore the interest is also.
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31-03-08, 04:23 PM
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| | | I just don't understand why you would go to so much effort, and then throw it away.
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31-03-08, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by dollface82  I havn't spoken to him in the past week - I actually don't know how to respond.
The logical me says - kick him to the curb.
The other me - your guy is in trouble, he has told me what wrong, a good partner should be there to support him through thick and thin.
Its weird - not sure whether I'm just being treated liek crap or he's actually doing the right "manly" thing and dealing with his problems solo. So there is hope.
You've been here for a while Dollface, I don't mean to offend you or anything, so hopefully you have not been taking offense to my posts. You're really persistent, but you shouldn't be committing to this dillhole.
Would you give a guy a million dollars to invest in, after he was the failing grounds of your former business? No, of course not; and that's just money we're talking about. Love is sentimental; priceless, and thus, should be handled as so.
Originally Posted by dollface82 I just don't understand why you would go to so much effort, and then throw it away.
weird. You're looking at it as if it were a waste of time. Although you lost your love out of the breakup, you have gained a lot of experience. Be a little more optimistic about it. Sometimes things do not work out between two people. It's kind of like suits; when you're done wearing them, you put them back in the closet; you don't stuff them in the trash. I mean, sure, it is disappointing that sometimes we as humans devote the time and other variables to a relationship, and are ultimately setting it up to fail, but the upside to that is that at least you move on instead of trying to 'spray perfume on the turd', so to speak.
I seriously hope you stop wasting time on this. It's done for.
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| | I guess I'm jsut a bit of a romantic and really hoped things would work themseles out.
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| | | romantic people don't stay with people who treat them bad.
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01-04-08, 04:58 PM
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| | its just so weird. was expecting alot more out of him | |
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| | | sometimes we do expect too much from our other. but what i don't understand is now that you know this about his, why do you cling on for hope?
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02-04-08, 08:45 AM
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| | | I know, time to move on. | |
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Originally Posted by dollface82 I know, time to move on. and how long have you already known this little bit of information??
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02-04-08, 03:53 PM
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| | | I guess when somebody of 34 years of age is in tears, tells you losing you was the biggest mistake of your life, and wants a future with you, I had a bit of faith and thought I'd give it a go.
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Originally Posted by dollface82 I guess when somebody of 34 years of age is in tears, tells you losing you was the biggest mistake of your life, and wants a future with you, I had a bit of faith and thought I'd give it a go.
lesson learnt - don't ever believe what a guy says. Not all men are the same. Chin up and move on.
There will be others.
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Originally Posted by dollface82 I guess when somebody of 34 years of age is in tears, tells you losing you was the biggest mistake of your life, and wants a future with you, I had a bit of faith and thought I'd give it a go.
lesson learnt - don't ever believe what a guy says. No, no, no. Don't let him ruin it for everyone else. Just learn to recognize the red flags and make the hard decisions early on. Don't give fools a chance, but don't close yourself off to the good guys. They're out there. There's one out there looking for you. I hope you find each other soon.
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Originally Posted by dollface82 I guess when somebody of 34 years of age is in tears, tells you losing you was the biggest mistake of your life, and wants a future with you, I had a bit of faith and thought I'd give it a go.
lesson learnt - don't ever believe what a guy says. it's more so learning to tell the bullshit from the facts.
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| | | well, I finally dumped him.
another weekend passed, he was unavailable.
I told him my concerns, his response was that in all relatinships, there are times when a partner can't/doesn't want to do anything.
I responded - fair enough, but I'm busy as well, need to spend time together on weekends, I've had enough.
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