now what do i do

[sbgirl]

Well, things aren't really going any better. He has come over a few times to visit , we have talked somewhat I guess. My heart fills with overwhelming joy to see him walk in the door, though I try not to show it, then when he leaves I am left sad, alone and empty once again. Today he said, "fine, you want me to move back and be miserable then I will." I want him here so badly, I am willing to do anything to make our family work. But I don't want it this way. Maybe if he comes back it will be ok, but what if not and I have to go through this all over again. Maybe if he comes back I will look at him differently and take off the love blinders and see what everyone else does. Maybe I am just crazy. How can I love someone so much that is hurting me this badly?????????

[Necrid]

I do believe what you do now is called "cold turkey"

well what works well for me is totally being cut off from my last girlfriend and going to a movie alone.... you know get back into the feel of being single


and if you meet up with him again, just say hi and that's it. Say nothing else but if he ask how you are say," good but I must be going now" or something along those lines

I hoped I helped

[sbgirl]

just never seeing him again would work but he comes over to see the baby and the other kids. It is all just a mess.

[Necrid]

oh OH!!

well that was never mentioned.... well I'm not sure I can help you there but if you need to vent just PM me or if you have AIM then IM me and we'll talk

[KenThePartyMan]

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else....

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