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22-07-07, 09:35 AM
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| | | I was just "dumped"...please help =( Ok so the reason i put dumped into parentheses is because my girlfriend left me the first day we were going out. I know this girl since a good 3 years, and we always perfectly understood each other. So yesterday I went at her house as a friend, and I asked her out. She said yes, and we kissed like 2 hours long...I said I loved her, and she said likewise. Now the problem is, when I got back home, she was on msn and she told me she had made a mistake because she didn't want to lose me as a friend if ever our relationship didn't work. I really love her, and I would like to do something to win her back. Please help!
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22-07-07, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Aeon666  Ok so the reason i put dumped into parentheses is because my girlfriend left me the first day we were going out. I know this girl since a good 3 years, and we always perfectly understood each other. So yesterday I went at her house as a friend, and I asked her out. She said yes, and we kissed like 2 hours long...I said I loved her, and she said likewise. Now the problem is, when I got back home, she was on msn and she told me she had made a mistake because she didn't want to lose me as a friend if ever our relationship didn't work. I really love her, and I would like to do something to win her back. Please help!
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a desperate guy. I think my friend... you just being her cuddle bitch... If she was into you as much as you into her this wouldn't have happened. Now i know you love her, and it hurts as hell... believe me, I know what I'm talking about. Women keep such cuddle bithches around for an emotional drive... Someone they can be friends with and someones shoulder to cry on, but never really go all the way with them. REMEMBER! There are no friends between MALE & FEMALE, unless youre gay ofcourse. If girls mentioned "FRIEND" in the sentence you must turn around and walk because guess what... you're not really gonna f**k a friend are you? That's what girlfriends are for... and I assume you have enough of guy fiends. Remember, if she sees you as a friend you won't get anywhere on romantic level... Ignore her, don't act frustrated and behave like this is no big deal... and you might get something out of it. She will use you and you gonna feel even worse. I've been there and talking from expierence, so trust me.
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22-07-07, 02:09 PM
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| | | Yeah, she doesn't need to even be your friend anymore.
You're being severely taken advantage of here.
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22-07-07, 10:18 PM
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| | | Thinking of it, that's what I had realized too, and you guys confirmed my thoughts. It's going to be hard...but i guess it's all over between us. Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. | |
23-07-07, 01:43 AM
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| | | haha well maybe that's the thing, you're too desperate. i would forget this girl because if she can't make up her mind about a simple thing like this, imagine what the future holds for you.
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23-07-07, 09:03 AM
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| | | Yeah, i guess so. Also, she was my first "girlfriend", what a great start... | |
23-07-07, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted by Aegis Well if it was official for even 5 minutes, you're already ahead of me, lol Seriously?
I always thought you were my age.
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23-07-07, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Aeon666 Yeah, i guess so. Also, she was my first "girlfriend", what a great start... that doesn't count. it's like drinking half of your beer and then considering yourself an alcoholic.. half assed actions never count.
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23-07-07, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Illusional haha well maybe that's the thing, you're too desperate. i would forget this girl because if she can't make up her mind about a simple thing like this, imagine what the future holds for you.
raverboy this is a very good point.
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Originally Posted by Aegis I am your age, lol.
Yeah, seriously...I've never been in a relationship that's been "official." I've never had an "official" girlfriend. Wow, really?
That really shocks the hell out of me, because you're an awesome dude.
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23-07-07, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Mathias Wow, really?
That really shocks the hell out of me, because you're an awesome dude. if you admire him so much then maybe you should hook up with him.
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24-07-07, 12:28 AM
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| | | OP- has it occurred to you that she was just freaking out and needs to be calmed down? Call her up and say whatever she needs to hear to believe that you're not going to break her heart. She's young and unsure too, you know.
At least give her a chance to do the right thing.
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24-07-07, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Gigabitch At least give her a chance to do the right thing. I was big on chances too wasn't I?
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24-07-07, 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted by SONOIL I was big on chances too wasn't I? Yes, but your situation was different. It sounds like all this girl did was panic. It happens.
Your ex was just plain hurtful.
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| | | to answer lilwing, I'm 16 and she is too. As for telling her that I won't play with her feelings, I already asked her about it and she said it wasn't because of this that she broke... We might have to meet in not long though, I forgot my watch at her house :S If you are right Gigabitch, then what should I do to make things up with her?
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