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Old 26-03-08, 02:15 PM
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Ex's friend wanna meet up? Should i?
Hey all..

Arghh!!! Like i'm not having enough problems trying to mend a broken heart.

My ex, has a really good lady fren, who is the girlfriend of his best fren (they've been together for 12 years). From what i've heard before i broke up with him (or rather before he dumped me) she broke up with the boyfriend too. I didnt see her much after that.

I did contacted her after i broke up, but stop short, after seeing pictures of her at my ex's wedding. It broke my heart, coz it made it look like, she knew about all these and that, her break up might have been a hoax afterall. She was the only one that i can get along with. I felt doubly cheated by my ex and his frens.

She has, however, been forwarding me those forwarded emails since i re-contacted her back. Never once have i seen my ex's and her (supposed) ex's name in the emails that she cced me in. Lately, maybe around 2 months back, almost all the emails she forwarded me has my ex's email addy as well, and how nice of it that his address is next to mine all the time. Yes, i understand that it is just an address, but it feels to me that she is being rather insensitve.

Last week, she sent me a message thru facebook, asking me for a meet up. She said something about keeping this frenship in constant contact. Like wtf?

I find all this kinda weird. Or am i just being overly paranoid?

Should i go meet her or should i just ignore her totally? What is she up to really?

Any help will be appreciated.
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I don't know but if I were in your situation, I would come right out and ask what's up.
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i don't even want to read your entire story, but hell.. i'd meet up with them. the past is the past, and it should remain there.

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What? I don't even understand your question.
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If the whole thing makes you uncomfortable, there's no reason to meet up. She's clearly still in touch with your ex and you clearly still need to be practicing NC (no contact), so I say definitely do not meet up.
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