What's going on?

[misombra]

don't listen to these girls.

she totally wants you.

[blikes22]

how can you tell? all she does is push and pull?

[blikes22]

I mean for a week straight a month ago she was calling me everyday and then when I opened up she ran away and said lets go back to no contact. Then she emails me once a week since then telling me a stupid story that she thought I would like to hear. maybe if we were together I would like to hear but now that were not why does she want to tell me? What is she doing? Why is she pushing and pulling?

[bluesummer]

I think Giga already answered this question:

Why?........

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gigabitch

......Because she's an attention whore and you are her emotional safety net. Have some self-respect and tell her to get bent.

[blikes22]

So you think I am just a safety net or do you think she is starting to slowly come around?

[Gigabitch]

I think you need to wake up and smell the coffee.

[blikes22]

Ok but a little more feedback than that would be appreciated?

[blikes22]

Am I just being stupid or does she care. I mean she still contacts me evryweek. Why does she do this?

[GerryPelosi]

if you both are truely lovers then love doesn't see any age
because in my experience love is blind and see doesn't see anything

[bluesummer]

Quote:

Originally Posted by blikes22

Am I just being stupid or does she care. I mean she still contacts me evryweek. Why does she do this?

Did you not read anything we have been saying?

She calls you because she likes the attention she gets. She knows you're not going to tell her to **** off when she calls, which you really should.

You're being stupid, she doesn't care about anyone except herself. Sorry to be so blunt, but you just don't seem to be getting it (denial, perhaps?).

[blikes22]

I have been listening... I guess it is denial. I had a missed call from her sister this weekend. I spoke to my ex on Monday and asked her about it. She said her sis called her from college and wanted my number because she missed me. Why would my ex giver her my number. She always finds way to poke herself back in my life. She just should have told her sister no, when she asked for my number.

[bluesummer]

You LET her poke herself back into your life, that's half the problem. You need to learn how to shut her down or she'll just keep at it, and keep prolonging your misery.

Drop her, damn it!

[blikes22]

how to i stop her from poking back in my life? Why would she give he sister my numbe if she wants me out of her life?

[Gigabitch]

Okay, listen up. She does NOT want you out of her life. She wants you to keep being her little bitch. Got it?

She wants

YOU

to be her bitch.

[blikes22]

I dont get it...Why would she want me to be there, if she is so happy since we broke up?