Pissed and Hurt.... - Love Forum

Tommy · #1 (**permalink**) 13-04-08, 12:38 PM

Done hating, moving on. Thanks for the support thus far.

Kromat · #2 (**permalink**) 13-04-08, 02:54 PM

Man you were being used so badly here, I can't believe you stayed with this bitch so long, I would've left after a few times of those things happening.
She just sat around and not contribute is another bad sign, she liked you for your money, that is all that it seems.
You didn't stand up to her and said yes to everything she wanted, so she stuck around and got everything she wanted, got bored of you and left.
Next time you get into a situation like this, don't hesitate to leave her for good and not look back.
Find a sweet and innocent girl and not the party type, those are nothing but trouble in the long run.

P.S. I avoid these kind of girls all the time, I'll get the facts first before settling down for a long term relationship, it's not worth the time and hearth ache.

bohemiandonut · #3 (**permalink**) 13-04-08, 03:24 PM

Damn. Well perhaps you should see my thread in the "Off-Topic Discussion" entitled "I just want him to know..." I think it might make you feel a little bit better.

But not much.

Pettit-Papillon · #4 (**permalink**) 13-04-08, 06:55 PM

You know...There is one rule : You can't buy love. You should've known when she was asking for money all the time that something is wrong with her.And don't You even think that every woman is like that. I understand You really good,how You feel .I've spend money (of course not so much like You) ,my time,my thoughts to try to make everything all right.I could also say that every man is like that.But remember that everyone is another.If You would listen to Justin Timberlake from time to time ,You would know that "What comes around,goes around" and one day she will feel the way You do now.Surel ,she will be unhappy in her life,because when people see only money ,in the end they know ,that they have lost their lifes.I understand You feel pain ,but just learn Your lesson.But it doesn't mean that from now You should treat bad every girl.It's not the point.The point is,that You have to learn how to look on people standing aside.
Besides,the spring is coming

Try to be a little bit more optimistic . World isn't so bad,as You think

Tommy · #5 (**permalink**) 14-04-08, 01:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Pettit-Papillon

You know...There is one rule : You can't buy love. You should've known when she was asking for money all the time that something is wrong with her.And don't You even think that every woman is like that. I understand You really good,how You feel .I've spend money (of course not so much like You) ,my time,my thoughts to try to make everything all right.I could also say that every man is like that.But remember that everyone is another.If You would listen to Justin Timberlake from time to time ,You would know that "What comes around,goes around" and one day she will feel the way You do now.Surel ,she will be unhappy in her life,because when people see only money ,in the end they know ,that they have lost their lifes.I understand You feel pain ,but just learn Your lesson.But it doesn't mean that from now You should treat bad every girl.It's not the point.The point is,that You have to learn how to look on people standing aside.
Besides,the spring is coming

Try to be a little bit more optimistic . World isn't so bad,as You think

Thank you!

I pride myself in being a good guy, loving and honest, hardworking and educated..... I would NEVER ever repeat what she has done to me, to anyone else. I am the most unselfish person.

I hope I can find someone deserving of me, and me deserving of them. I know you went through a similar situation reading your ex's email....... You know how it makes one feel, so I really appreciate you responsing and supporting me!

Tommy · #6 (**permalink**) 14-04-08, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by bohemiandonut

Damn. Well perhaps you should see my thread in the "Off-Topic Discussion" entitled "I just want him to know..." I think it might make you feel a little bit better.

But not much.

HAHAHA, made me laugh. Aint it the truth, thanks for that

Pettit-Papillon · #7 (**permalink**) 14-04-08, 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Tommy

Thank you!

I pride myself in being a good guy, loving and honest, hardworking and educated..... I would NEVER ever repeat what she has done to me, to anyone else. I am the most unselfish person.

I hope I can find someone deserving of me, and me deserving of them. I know you went through a similar situation reading your ex's email....... You know how it makes one feel, so I really appreciate you responsing and supporting me!

Tommy ,actually it's not a big thing

But I'm happy that I could help You somehow,even if You smiled just for one minute

We are all in a Heartbreak Hotel,and we should support each other

So if You need to take a revange on her,do it .(Of course don't kill her

) . But only if it makes You feel better. Sometimes taking a revenge on someone gives more pain than before...
So another rule for You : "There's more plenty fish in the sea."

I'm sure You will find the right one .You worth it

caringheart · #8 (**permalink**) 14-04-08, 08:45 AM

I understand that you must be feeling hurt and used.

But, let it go. You can't change history but if you decide to hold onto the memories and bitterness you're guaranteed to feel bad.

Life can be full of challenges but move on and don't let the memories alter your view of tomorrow.

Mishanya · #9 (**permalink**) 14-04-08, 02:41 PM

Tommy mate, you gave way too much. Why didn't you raise these issues sooner?

Tommy · #10 (**permalink**) 15-04-08, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Mishanya

Tommy mate, you gave way too much. Why didn't you raise these issues sooner?

Fear of loosing her, which happened anyway. I am a pleaser. Now i'm just going to please myself lol. Bullet bike here I come! She always told me she'd break up with me if I bought now.... Now I get to!

I've also reconnected with an old friend I actually met through her friend (it is her firends ex girlfriend

) lol. She's a doll.

Tommy · #11 (**permalink**) 15-04-08, 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by caringheart

I understand that you must be feeling hurt and used.

But, let it go. You can't change history but if you decide to hold onto the memories and bitterness you're guaranteed to feel bad.

Life can be full of challenges but move on and don't let the memories alter your view of tomorrow.

Thanks for the kind words! I'm staying positive and only looking forward! Can't change the past....

Gigabitch · #12 (**permalink**) 15-04-08, 03:28 AM

Tommy, this is me hitting you with the rolled-up magazine:

SMACK!

Don't stick your nose in there again! No curiosity for you!

1averagejoe · #13 (**permalink**) 15-04-08, 01:03 PM

You kind of sound like me, except with a lot more money. My ex was kind of the some way, it's almost like she expected nice things. She never told me to buy her stuff, but it was kind of expected and it was awkward if I didn't. Me being just like you I kind of gave in and well I did it because I didn't want to lose her.

But...best revenge for cheaters.

Try to get them in bed, then pee in their butt. lol.

(I have not done this, but have very seriously thought about it. As disgusting as it is it would have put a smile on my face.)

Pettit-Papillon · #14 (**permalink**) 15-04-08, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by 1averagejoe

Try to get them in bed, then pee in their butt. lol.

Oh my Gosh, it is so disgusting.I wouldn't even think about it.Only people from Jerry Springer think the way You are.Grrrooooosss.Fe

1averagejoe · #15 (**permalink**) 15-04-08, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Pettit-Papillon

Oh my Gosh, it is so disgusting.I wouldn't even think about it.Only people from Jerry Springer think the way You are.Grrrooooosss.Fe

lol...proof that it would work. jerry spring? lol i don't watch that crap. plus pee in the butt was a really big internet joke thing and i thought it was funny as hell. for example:

"she's hot, I'd pee in her butt"

would i do that...nah. that's really ****ing gross. but i thought about it and considered if it was worth it, because vengeance is so sweet.