girlfriend left me for her ex...she still love me

[eleanor1967]

I've been with my girl friend for 5 months..we felt in love from the first days...we used to see each almost everyday cause she's with me in the same school,before being with me;she was with a guy that she left cause she said all what cared about is havin sex with her...she left him for me...she loved me so much and sure i did the same...we had really great times together and had so much fun..we really spent great moments that i will never forget..eveything was going well...but 3 weeks ago,something started to change...i knew that something was going on...she began to care less and less about me..when i asked her...she said that everyhting was fine..and that had to put more trust in her....last saturday i called her on her phone and there was her ex boyfriend...she left me the day after for her ex that she has been dating lately...she said 2 weeks ago she met him by chance..they hugged each other and started crying..and find out that she still loves him....now that i no longer talk to her...whenever she meets me at school she comes..tries to hug me..kiss me and says that she want me to be her friend..that she loves both of us and that she just cant not talk to me..that she regret wat she's doin to me and wish she didnt started dating him again but cant be wid me coz she wana stop playin around wid us

she says that she wana be my friend cause she cant forget me and that at least she will continue to see me...kind of having some of me...cause she really needs it..she still love me cause i can see that she is still jealous..whenever she sees me with one of her friends..she gets mad and unhappy...whenver am with her she tries to check on my phone..check received calls and messages..trying to find out if am up with another girl

i really dont wana hate her...but she is pushing me to do so...i still love her so so much..i spend the whole day thinking of her...she said that she wishes she was back with me but she just cant cause shes afraid of breaking his ex heart again like what she did to..cause she wants to put some order in her life though on the behalve of her feelings

SHOULD I TRY TO GET HER BACK ? or just let things as they are !!!

[Konsig]

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Originally Posted by eleanor1967

SHOULD I TRY TO GET HER BACK ? or just let things as they are !!!

That is up to you.

If you don't try, it'll be easier to heal faster and get over it and on with your life.

If you do try, you might win her back, but if she continues to be like this, it might just prolong the current situation, which is obviously not what you want.

My advice:
tell her to choose. Either she chooses to try it with you, or she chooses not to. Neither of those choices are definitive and binding, it's just a relationship. But she most choose now.

[angeli]

I can't believe she could still say she loves you when she has hurt you and left you for someone else...

But if you love her you could give the love a chance..

[GrkScorp]

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Originally Posted by eleanor1967

SHOULD I TRY TO GET HER BACK ? or just let things as they are !!!

Honestly.., it's easier to just let things be as they are.., and you're a guy.., so you should always pick the easiest thing to do.. just let it be..

It's so much easier to just find someone new and start something new.., than it is to try and get back or fix something old.. What happened.., happened.., in the past now.., start looking ahead.., not behind..

Best,

GrkScorp