| Broken up...but not totally So this is how it started...
It was a few days ago, I had gotten off the phone talking to my boyfriends (we're in a long-distance relationship), my friend called me up and she asked if my boyfriend (let's call him, the bastard) and I had broken up. I said no, and she told me that another girl added her as friend on myspace (even though she doesn't know her). In the profile picture there's the pic of the bastard and her and the statues said "excited to go on a romantic trip with my baby love". I logged into my friend's account and checked out the slut myspace. There were a few more pics, nothing inappropriate at this point. Except for the fact that she describes him as her "handsome love" and "baby love". I called him up, accusing him of cheating and he denied, denied, denied. I told him it was over and he said "you're breaking up with me for not cheating?" and said "You're making a mistake". He was begging me not break up and he was crying. He asked me to let him prove to me that he was never unfaithful and that he would talk to the slut about it. I gave it some consideration. Then the next day, he told me, she said that it was a misunderstanding and she didn't mean to get between him and me. Well, that was just pure bullshit, and he bought it from her. I told him that day that I have sent a friend request to her, and that I would tell ask her some question. And he was so confident that she would add me and tell me the exact same thing she had talk him. Later that day, I checked my account and she denied my request and I went to her myspace again, at this point, she set a picture of him and her kissing as a profile picture.
Obviously, she knew that I knew by this point, but just pictures of them together didn't prove much, so she had to post the most intimate picture of them together. I called him up and told him about the new picture and he said he doesn't remember. I told him it was definitely over.
The next morning, he called and told me he was sorry and he sincerely apologized (about he went on her myspace and see it for himself). He didn't mean to hurt me, and it was just a kissed went he was drunk. I said, "I asked you over and over again to tell me the full truth and you denied anything happened." At this point, he was talking really low and said, "I know if I had told you, you would have broken up with me, because you said, it doesn't matter if it's just a kiss, it's over." He said he is scared of losing me. I asked him to tell me the full truth again, and he said that was it. He never had sex or done anything sexual with her.
She told my friend they've been going out of 6 months, however the pictures only show from late January. So that's only 3 month. I don't exactly believe it, because the months are off and the intimate pictures are only from one event, at a party. But, like he said, if it was only one kiss, why would it drive her to do all that? Unless she's really psychotic. And I want to give him the benefit of the doubt because, he is so devoted to me. Since we're in a long distance relationship, he's in Germany and I'm here, we have to schedule each other in to talk (and it's always 9 or 10 p.m his time). But, from time to time, he would call me in the morning (his afternoon) to tell me good morning and now much he miss me or text message me telling me how much he loves me or just sexy messages. And when he comes back early from the baltic sea with his mom and his sister early (they go to the baltic sea every weekend during this time of the year) he would surprise me and call. Even if it's 2 in the morning his time. Just last Sunday, he asked if I would married him and ask me to come back to Germany to see him this coming Christmas again. He was so disappointed with I said I couldn't. Little things that he does like that makes me not want to doubt him, but then on the other hand he didn't fest up about kissing her. Tell me what you think...
Other fishy business:
-He said the kiss took place at the end of February or beginning of March. However, other pics of them showed that it was from the end of January (when we were having a lot of fights and went on a break for two weeks).
-It took him a while to answer my questions and kept saying I don't know. (I don't know if that's because he doesn't know what to say, or the right thing to say)
-She was on our friend list before, but either deleted her myspace or deleted us approximately more than 6 months ago.
-Why would she if that, unless more is going on?
P.S>> He also made it clear that he would not let me go without a fight and him being an extremely jealous person and restrictive agreed to have me date other people while he tries to win me back.
Last edited by Simplicity : 27-04-08 at 02:30 AM.
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