dumped by my girlfriend 2 weeks ago...need your commencts guys !!!

[eleanor1967]

i have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months....we first got together and after a couple of days she decided to leave her ex boyfriend for me because all she thinks he used her for sex..that he was not openminded and she cant imagine herself living with him for the rest of her life..we lived really wonderful times and were both in love of each other...she always said that she found everything she needed in me and that i was far more for her good than her ex..

last saturday i called but there was her exboyfriend...when i talked later on she said that she has been dating him lately...that she still love him..that she loves me too...and that now she has to make a hard choice between me and him..that she is gona choose him because she thinks she loves him more than she loves me and because she has been with him(8 months) more than she has been with me (5 moths) ..she asked me to stay her friend.

when i used to talk to her for the first few days...whenever we used to meet (same school)...she started hugging and kissing me..tried to make some jokes...once, i asked her if we cant be again together...she said that she is sorry for what she is doing to me...that she wishes she could have both of us...soemtimes she says that she regrets what she did and other times says she regrets nothing...and cant be back with me cause she wants to stop playing us and want to put some order in her life...

when i told her that i just cant be her friend cause i just cant...she just didnt like it...and started bagging me to be with her just like we used to...means some kind of her secret school boyfriend..and bagged me to keep talking to her everyday...because she wont stand if i disapear from her at once...when i askeded her if she still can sleep with me she said yes...at the end i asked her to think again..she said no...so i just sat everything off

i know she is still in love with because she often calls me on my phone (usin blocked number) saying hi and at the sametime trying to find out what am doing...sometimes when she sees that am looking at her...she tries to make me jealous by hugging one of her boy friends which normally heats me up...i asked her best friend and she said that she told her that she's happy now with her ex.

i know that she has been a ***** and still she is...i know she dont deserve me...and i know u all guys will say that she used me as a rebound...and i have to forget her to forget her and never talk to her again...
but let me tell you guys that i have been talking to her family and friends and they all agreed that she truly used to love me...and that she got with me because of me..not to get over her ex

what is she trying to do and how should i act ?

[1averagejoe]

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Originally Posted by eleanor1967

but let me tell you guys that i have been talking to her family and friends and they all agreed that she truly used to love me...and that she got with me because of me..not to get over her ex

There's your problem...they're full of bs and trying to make her look like she wasn't that bad of a person. How about you go talk to your friends and family.

Even if she did love you, she used you and broke that trust you had with her. No point getting back together with her or being friends. Find someone you can trust and will love you and only you. You don't want to be the second best, do you? Don't talk to her, don't be her friend, delete her phone number, pictures, get rid of gifts, etc...that's the quickest way to move on.

Don't waste your time on her.

[Lipp]

Unfortunately it sounds as if you're being played. Look for someone who's less of a "love-hopper".