Help! I cant live without her.....*is very depressed* - Love Forum

IluvAnna2004 · #1 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 02:40 AM

Help...I cant live without her...we split about a week ago and I cant cope

I have never been so depressed in my life.

I have lost her for good and I swear that I love her so much and I just dont know what to do wivout her. What should I do? I dont see the point of bothering in life...I feel like all the energy i had has been taken from me and I cant stand and fight anymore. I see her everyday which doesnt help things. Im scared im gonna do something i will regret. its not only that but im depressed about other things too. I have never been so depressed in my life...

What should I do? Please help cos other wise I dont want to think will happen...

Thank you for your time....

MJK · #2 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 03:17 AM

Dont be so down, you'll see thing will get better

My girlfriend just dumped me a week ago too, and i feel realy bad i loved her so much. But live goes on. Time will make all that go away

What i do is i'm always working, going out with friend so i dont have to think about her. now i feel a little bit better but it still hurt.

Stay strong man

Sami09 · #3 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 03:24 AM

first are u sure its over. What happened did you cheat on her and she wont forgive you. i cant pretend to understand because i guy i am dating i dated for 15 months he my first bf if we broke up i would be heartbroken for sure.. good luck in all both of you

squirrley · #4 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 04:19 AM

You do get throught it...may not seem like it or feel like it-but you have to find the strength to understand and know it happened for some reason and you'll be better off in the long run-TRUST ME! Ive been there but the world DOESNT end and neither does your life-as a matter of fact when youre past the hurt and pain and can start seeing the hope again...you'll feel so much better and become so much stronger!

Have faith in yourself that you will get through this heartache...in time it does pass.

BillyGalbreath · #5 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 04:24 AM

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Originally Posted by squirrley

You do get throught it...may not seem like it or feel like it-but you have to find the strength to understand and know it happened for some reason and you'll be better off in the long run-TRUST ME! Ive been there but the world DOESNT end and neither does your life-as a matter of fact when youre past the hurt and pain and can start seeing the hope again...you'll feel so much better and become so much stronger!

Have faith in yourself that you will get through this heartache...in time it does pass.

EXACTLY !

trust me, I just went thru this crap - I am fine now.

Except for the whole eating trees thing...

BillyGalbreath · #6 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 04:25 AM

btw - the eating trees was a joke to try and get you to laugh. lol

Fawn · #7 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 04:57 AM

If things keep becoming more depressing and its effecting everything & everyone in your life I would suggest going to a doctor or phyciatrist... sometimes only professionals can help...

Nameless18 · #8 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 12:42 PM

I understand how u feel cos ive been through it myself. its hard to let a person whom u left ur heart with go and e thought of tt person appears in ur mind all e time and u cant seem to get ur mind off her. Ppl say time will heal all wounds but im not sure if its easy cause it hasnt been ez for me.. U might wanna do things that would occupy ur mind from her eg. i love soccer so i play soccer to get my mind off her. Do somting tt u like and try not to tink of her. It isnt ez but u shld give it a try.

E path ur on only leads urself to destruction and it will affect u, ur frenz and ur family. Give urself time to tink clearly instead of depressing tots and u will have a clear idea of wad ur next step would take u to.

oookkkooo · #9 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 06:37 PM

You are right, seeing her everyday DEFINITELY doesn't help things. You need time to get over her. Go out with friends keep yourself occupied because when you are alone your mind starts ticking and thats when u really start missing her. I am in the process of breaking all contact with my ex. It still hurts like hell but not as much as when I used to see her often. It's difficult to tell yourself not to make contact but u have to force yourself to because the hurt after you see her is much worse than trying to cut contact. I will get better.

blue_moon2 · #10 (**permalink**) 26-06-04, 06:44 PM

you just have to understand you have to stop seein her to get over her. whe you see her you will go home and think about her. if you dont see her the you might go home and think about something else. eventually u find that feeling so bad about it is silly cause you dont really miss her any more. for some people it just snaps and for some it happens slowly. depends what kind of person you are.

IluvAnna2004 · #11 (**permalink**) 27-06-04, 12:34 AM

As hard has it maybe I'm going to break all contact with her. I have just looked throught my room and hide anything that reminds me of her. I went out and treated myself to a new cd I wanted so Im gonna try and get over her. Its not gonna be easy but theres no chance i can get over her while im mates with her can I? i really didnt want it to come to this....she told me why she wanted to split and she said I didnt do anything wrong and that it was her fault. I sooooooo badly wanna get back with her tho....I cant believe this time last week I had my last kiss with her....and it was a really romantic kiss 2! I want more like that! I wanna hold her hand again and tell her how much I love her but i dont think it will work tho

Oh what I would do to go back in time so I could stop this from happening. I would have enjoyed my last night with her even more. I dont like being single again and I so badly want to try again with her what should I do? She different to any other girl shes one in a million and I feel I cant let her go shes 2 good. But I dont know maybe I should let her go...? oh i dont know....any ideas? Please help cos its really depressing me I cant stop thinking about her.....

jonny44442003 · #12 (**permalink**) 03-07-04, 02:49 PM

Look M8 this isn't gonna help U talkin about her on a forum. It'll just make U more and more depressed. It makes you think of her even more. Wat i suggest is try to get a new girlfriend. This may seen crazy but if ur unhappy single then just try too find someone you love. Theres bound to be sum1 out there. And watever u do don't lean towards suicide. My m8 was so depressed he commited suicide over his g.f and it destroyed his family's lives. Now all they do is stay in the house and cry all day. And the worst bit for me was that we had been together a hour b.4 he commited suicide. Now that hurt. That hurt a lot.

Although I am over it now the family feels pain