another get my ex back thread!

**vista** · 30-06-09 08:56 PM

ok so about 8 days ago, my ex broke up with me, saying he needed to sort his head out and he thoughthe wasnt a good bf and he didnt treat me right and i would be better off without him, even though i never thought any of these things.

Anyway so for about 4-5 days he cried, begged, went insane the usual. it just pushed him further away.

He kept saying i still care about you and love you so much and your the perfect girl etc.

Anyway so i started reading online and here about how to get my ex back and started implementing ideas.

Getting strong, doing my own thing, cutting off contact, being the person he fell inlove with, im doing all these things!

we live together in university dorms and we study together (medicine), we also have summer coming up a 4 week break in about 4 weeks time which could be an issue!

So things seem to be working sort of! even though we have to see eachother im not giving him much attention and he is kind of running after me a bit, not in a lets get back together way in a please dont ignore me way.

But yesterday, he seemed to be playing the game back, i was in the lib working on something and i looked tired and was sitting alone, he was laughing and joking with a friend and he asked me to go out and eat with them and i said no but it made me feel bad and miss him and depressed! The day before that he was the one acting all depressed and needy!

what should i do!??

edit: we broke up on our 19 month anniversiry