one day he decided he didnt love me

[waveswhispering]

MY boyfreind and i have been going out for eight months. We have had a very good relationship. I got jealous when he would look at porn. I mean we were having sex every night, is that really nescarry? Well, as time went on, we both got a little jealous when guys would ask me and stuff, but you know that is normal. So just the other day, he woke and decided he didnt love me anymore. He has been acting wicked creul, telling me that im ****ed up, im no good, he doenst love me im a bitch he cant stand me, ect. Last night he got drunk and went on a rampage and was throwing my stuff around and talking all crazy. I dont know what is going on with him, this is all so sudden. He says that he doesnt love someone else, he just wants to see what else is out there and date other people, and go out and have fun with his freinds. I just fond this so odd. He will tell me its over then the next day call me telling me he loves me and wants me to snuggle with him. I juist dont get it, any advice?

Thank you so much,
Jessica

[Anthony]

I seemed to receive the impression that something has hurt him and he's lashing out at you as a result of that. It might be something that's normal for him to do, though it's difficult to make a reasonable hypothesis without knowing him. Can you provide some more information about his overall personality and interests?

[sfalexi]

Leave him.

If I were a chick, I wouldn't stand for being called a bitch. I wouldn't stand for someone saying that I'm "****ed up". I wouldn't stand for having someone throw MY stuff around in a drunken rage. ESPECIALLY if it's just been 8 months! Sounds like HE'S ****ed up. I say leave him and if he keeps bothering you, run him over.

Rod Steele