Sweet Breakup Justice!!!!! - Love Forum

Quan · #1 (**permalink**) 23-02-05, 03:05 AM

I'm am just bubbling right now it's so damn funny! As some of you know my ex broke up with me in Nov. about 3 weeks after our 1 year anniversary. We were living together at the time, and 2 days after the roundabout breakup, she was out at this other guys house til 4 or 6 in the morning 3 or more nights in a row (i left after the 2nd night).

Well, fast forward to last night. She suddenly realizes while talking to a friend that he NEVER talks to her about his life. He never involves her with his problems, and NEVER talks about anything having to do with school. So shes freaking out and starts calling me (we broke off all contact a while back). So i talk to her and end up going over to her apartment because shes freaked. We get to talking about everything so I just tell her that I am leaving and I will call her when i get home.

I get home, call her, have her give me his social secuirty #... She's his boss and uses it for payroll so she pretty much has it memorized. I know this guy apparently goes to the same community college that i used to go to. So I log onto the student services page which only requires your social and birthdate. Well... guess what.... HES NOT IN SCHOOL BECAUSE HE IS ON ACADEMIC SUSPENSION!

So.... that leaves the question... what or who is he doing when he says he is going to school?!?!

I just told her and went to bed.... I feel sorry for her because he has done this to her and she's feeling terribly used... but its also just kharma coming around and biting her in the ass.

that is all.

C1d6OC · #2 (**permalink**) 23-02-05, 04:59 AM

I completely agree with this thread except for the social security #...otherwise, it goes back to you never know what you have until you lost it.

Quan · #3 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 08:06 AM

yea, well... it was her call on the social #.. She told me she had it from work so i just hopped on and checked. I know it's not legal, but at least now she knows. I feel sorry for her, and I've wished her the best with it. It's just funny how she thought this guy was soooo great. Truth comes out sooner or later.

sfalexi · #4 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 10:17 AM

Ah well. Her loss.

Frasbee · #5 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 10:49 AM

We all know you're lovin' it.

Quan · #6 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 11:09 AM

In a way I am, but I still feel for her more than I am happy shes in this situation. It does seem funny in some ways, but I really do hate to see her hurt. I also have to make sure I don't let this give me hope that she will come back to me because of this. I was kind of excited about it and thought it was funny.... Now it just makes me think she will find someone else.... so........ yea, good thing i cut off contact again yesterday.

schueys_girl · #7 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 07:19 PM

if you ever find out what he was doing while he said he was in school then let us know...im intrigued!!!

Quan · #8 (**permalink**) 10-03-05, 05:16 AM

Well, SG..... She didn't ever tell me exactly how it came out but she told him she didn't believe that he went to school and then nothing was said. Then last week she told me he finally admitted he wasn't going to school but never told me if he gave an explanation of what the hell he was doing. But she seems ok with that so I told her to have fun being oblivious to how much of an ass he is. We are no longer talking to each other as of today when she cancelled our plans to go to church together so.... yea. I've been hanging onto her since November. It's time to let go... AGAIN... but she says we might get back together in may because it will have been 6 months then. :shaking head: