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jay12 · #1 (**permalink**) 21-05-05, 08:55 AM

Thanks everyone for the sound advice thats been given me during my tough time being dumped....
Its helped me start to get over my ex, and put me in a position to give others advice on their situations.

But, now about 6 weeks on.. im still not over it, when we first split up, used to get pissed off about the way she used to treat me. Sometimes i would love her and sometimes i would hate her.

Then i found out she had a new man, and i was devastated, for a while...then i started to feel ok about it, i thought i was gettin over it, now i feel just how i felt when we split up, i spend hours of the day either pining for her or gettin pissed about the way she used to treat me.

Its been 6 weeks now, about 2 solid weeks of no contact, a few broken weeks of no contact before that ...

Today has been a bad day and ive been thinkink about her all day..and now im drunk.
How long is this gonna take?????????

jay12 · #2 (**permalink**) 21-05-05, 08:56 AM

Also, possibly this was gonna go in the sex chat section.
But i cant begin to think about anyone other than her sexually.
Is this normal?? Will it pass???

TrueLove · #3 (**permalink**) 22-05-05, 02:23 PM

yea its very normal bro im goin through the same situation, you jus need 2 giv urself time away from her and avoid any contact

do you want her back???

ghenzmitz · #4 (**permalink**) 22-05-05, 10:21 PM

nah, i think there's really no big chance for you to get her back...or let's say even if you will get her back...still, there's no more chance of getting things back......probably it will lead to worse and break up again and again.....you should really forget her.....but don't use someone to cover the pain in you.....avoid hurting anyone ok?....and please be patient.....Time is really there to manage the pain inside in you....I'm feeling the same way as with you.....You can't love her anymore because she had already somebody......and you have no other ways to keep things back ok? If only miracles really happen....Time is there to ease the pain...just avoid contact with her.....We're feeling the same way bro....my ex broke up with me a month a go...and a therapist suggested to me that, you should be patient.....wait for a time...and it did worked out bro....keep yourself busy...we had no choice...It really makes us hurt and cry....Even me....I keep on crying every night....but they said, crying is a cure to depression and it did worked out.....just forget her...think that she's not the only girl in the world bro....wake up......

jay12 · #5 (**permalink**) 23-05-05, 01:05 AM

I know and thanks for the kind words.

Sometimes i do think that im gettin over it, and other times i feel so bad, every now and again some memories will come flooding back to me about her and it will really set me back.

I cant wait to be over her.

RedAngl19 · #6 (**permalink**) 23-05-05, 02:20 AM

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Originally Posted by jay12

I know and thanks for the kind words.

Sometimes i do think that im gettin over it, and other times i feel so bad, every now and again some memories will come flooding back to me about her and it will really set me back.

I cant wait to be over her.

Take it easy jay. It's tough at first, but it gets better with time. Trust me on that. If you ever need to get your feelings out use writing as an outlet. It helps me when I'm upset. You have many willing eyes here. Consider me a friend, write me if you need to get something out.

jay12 · #7 (**permalink**) 23-05-05, 06:03 AM

That really makes me feel better, thanks guys.

Been about 6 weeks now... gettin better gradually.

ghenzmitz · #8 (**permalink**) 23-05-05, 12:15 PM

just be patient! you can really get over her....LONG LIVE THE HEARTBROKEN