This is the case where you deliberately didnt post her side of the story isnt it?
She left you because she could not take the long distance anymore and additionally you just werent any good for her.
Drinking so much, being older and everything.
You want her back - but she doesnt want you the way you are now.
And personally if I were you, id either accept that.
Or: I'd change myself (if I thought she is right about me)
I'd tell her exactly what I am gonna change and that I would like her to talk to me again if it happened (and also that I will possibly seduce her again at that time)
and I'd create an outlook where both of you can actually be together for good and lead a happy normal life.
If that is not possible - do herself a favour and let her go. She has the right to lead a fullfilling life on her own - without you getting her away from it all the time.
If you at least had a future where you could be together - that would be a different matter.
But it doesnt look to me as if that was the case?!
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.