it rather seems that both of you cant imagine a life with him in it.
Originally Posted by kel1986
(or with the two of you actually being together)
here is what to do:
1) find out if he even still really loves you and wants to be with you
2) MAKE A PLAN. Create a scenario. do it together. LD usually fail if you have no future where you can actually be together. Its not a must, but i think its very important.
if it is not possible for either of you (or he isnt into you so much anymore anyways) then what exactly are you having this relationship for?
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.