people get angry in two different ways:
lets say you are at a supermarket and there is a special discount on your favourite snack
but when cahsing out you notice that the cashier forgot to add it.
So you go out and get angry and yell at him and insist on seeing the manager.
And the cashier says nothing
he takes that shit everyday
and them someday he takes out his gun and starts shooting people out of the blue.
People get angry in different ways. Some keep it in and explode
others just explode right of the bat.
If he keeps shit like that in that is his problem. Tell him to pull himself together and get his shit straight.
You didnt realise. You want to change yourself.
He must realise that if he has a problem he has to TALK about it.
If he doesnt then he is not worth staying with. Doesnt matter if you love him or not. If he does not talk about his problems such situations will arise again and again.
I know what im talking about. I have done that shit myself and it almost destroyed my relationship.
If he still loves you then he should get his shit together
apologise for not speaking to you sooner
and you both work together for a better future.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.