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    HELP !!!!! My boyfriend isn't interested in me

    Hi guys so I have something that's been playing on my mind for a while. I'm a 23 year old female been with my partner for 2 1/2 years he is 26 we have been living together for a year and half. When I first met him he was a virgin and masterbated a lot which I can understand. But we have been together for a while now and it seems like he only wants sex when it's convenient for him. I will try and aniciate sex but he just turns around and says no I had a w**k earlier !!!!. This is all the time ! To me it shouldn't matter whether he has had a wank that morning! It's now evening !!! I have spoke to him about my concern and he just seems to shrug it off and doesn't see any wrong. Today was the last straw I got home from work at about 1.30 pm and decided to dress up and try spice thIngs up, but he just turned round and said I'm not horny can you tell? This just made me feel like a total idiot so I just got dressed and sat in the other room. Someone please give me advice !! I love him and I'm pretty sure he loves me too.

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    Do you know is he stressed from work or something else? I know when some guys are tired, they just prefer to wank since they don't need to get emotionally involved.

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    If he loves you and you love him, then it should be pretty strait forward. Talk to him. Express how his self gratification makes you feel unneeded and unwanted. Love aside, you need to feel needed. Physiologically.
    If he can't keep his hand off his dick long enough to be intimate with you, then he doesn't want to be intimate with you and you should get out now before you get too involved. If you can't be honest with him, you need to get out now to find someone you can be. If he cannot take hearing you voice displeasure over him not ****ing you, then you need to get out now. Love and sex are deeply rooted and if you are trying to sleep with him but he isn't putting forth any reciprocal effort then get out now.
    I can say in honesty if my wife of 10 years and mate of 15 comes home and my hand isn't even dry yet but she wants some, I still do everything I can at 33, 2 kids, a full time job and MS to get it up and give it to her.
    That is love.
    My $.02

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    Huh, sounds to me to that he simply isn't intrested anymore in you...

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    why are you "pretty sure he loves you?" I don't see it. (and remember.. things tha happened 1 yr ago, 2 yrs ago, 6 months ago, don't count for what's true TODAY...).
    If he's not interested in sex with you there's nothing you can do. Just think of a guy that you have ZERO interest in having sex with - is there ANYTHING that guy can do to have sex with you? right.. NO.

    Time to decide if this relationship is for you or not (and the answer should be "not") and time t move on.

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    He was virgin till 24 years of age. That means he have no experiences in relationship and he used to live for himself not counting with other half. So basicaly you are with egoist who dont care about you. He masturbates and that is addiction. Nofap site can help him. Masturbation is bad and if he watches porn too then thats a big factor why your relationship sucks cause it ruins relationships. It damages his mind and he have crippled perception of relationships.
    If he dont appreciate you and not willing to change then he needs wake up call - you have to leave him. Now he have taken you for granted and thats why hes lazy in relationship.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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    Now watched Dear Deidre and she said something similar.

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=NETB9wpWv2Q

    But porn and masturbation is damaging to mind even few minutes in 3 months. Better stay away from all that for life.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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